It is strange to think that just two weeks ago, I was at the Eiffel tower with our study abroad group. Staring up at the twinkling lights of one of the world’s most iconic buildings is definitely a humbling experience, to say the least. While watching the beautiful structure light up, it is easy to be hypnotized by everything about it. From the tower itself to the many people sitting in the garden, all mesmerized by the magic of the city of Paris.
Before coming to France, I spent a lot of time on my own. I had recently moved into an apartment and though I do have a roommate, she is often at work or with relatives who also live in Austin, so for the last four weeks before leaving for Paris, I had gotten very used to living by myself. I was buying a lot of pre-made frozen meals to avoid the arduous process of cooking a real meal, consistently slept in until 11 a.m., and would often walk around my apartment with no pants on. Living in Paris for five weeks with a group of nine other people forced me to change my habits. For one, no more walking around without pants! We were expected to be up early for our daily excursions, so no more waking up at 11 a.m. As incredible as Paris’ épiceries are, with their wide variety of fresh fruits and vegetables, they definitely lack in the area of frozen meals. Despite these stark differences, I found myself quickly adjusting to this new routine and even enjoying this new way of living.
While waking up early enough to enjoy a quick breakfast and teaching myself how to cook simple meals were little adjustments that enhanced my time in Paris, I noticed more significant changes too. The biggest change in my daily habits that I experienced from this study abroad trip was the number of social interactions that occurred on a daily basis. From ordering an espresso at what became my favorite boulangerie before class, to having profound conversations with people who quickly became close friends, these interactions showed me the importance of genuine connections with others.
Some of my favorite parts of the trip were staying up late, sitting on the balcony of Maison de Norvège and talking to people from the study abroad group. It was through these late-night conversations that I feel like I truly got to know everyone and why they were choosing to study abroad in the first place. These chats helped me to realize the importance of getting to know someone on a personal level; of really understanding who someone is as a person. It is from these types of connections that allowed me to appreciate those present in my life and crave relationships with new people.
Nothing could have prepared me for the incredible, unpredictable, life-changing experience that was the Art of Travel. I am so grateful for this experience. I will take what I have learned in Paris and use that to better myself as an individual. Though it may seem harder to do in the city of Austin, the things that I have learned in Paris will help me to create new connections with strangers and to cultivate the relationships with the people in my life.
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Born in Austin, Texas, Enrique Bustamante is visiting Paris for the first time through this SEU study abroad trip. He is very excited to get out of the States and see what France has to offer. He is a Spanish major at St. Edward’s University, graduating in December of this year. Despite never having been to France before, Enrique does have experience with traveling to different countries, as he frequently visits his family in Mexico. His parents left their life in Mexico to come to the United States, where they raised him and his little sister. Considering how Enrique has lived in Texas his whole life, it is no surprise that there are challenges that come from exploring an unfamiliar place. Despite his reservations about coming to Paris, Enrique is tackling these challenges head-on.