For my final project, I decided to do a short film about my brother and his family. The idea came to me when I went to visit them in North Carolina for thanksgiving. O try to go there every year because some times that is the only time in the year I get to see them.
The time my brother has to spend with us is very limited because, first of all, my dad got divorced from his mom, so he went to live to Costa Rica with her. He lived there most of his life. Nevertheless, he visited us very often. It is crazy when I think how close we are for not having lived together for most of our lives. His mother is an excellent woman that always told him to love his father and all of us. So now, he is the biggest family lover in my family. For him, family is the first thing; and I am not talking about wives, siblings, and children, but the whole family: cousins, nephews and nieces, uncles and aunts, grandparents.
When he was 30 something years old, he met a Hawaiian girl named Luz. They fell in love, got married in Hawaii, and went to live in Chapel Hill North Carolina, where my brother got a job as an architect. They now have two little girls, and a baby on the oven. So, he has to divide his time between my family, his mom’s family, and his wife’s family. Nevertheless, we see each other about once or twice a year.
I came with the idea of this documentary because I have always been interested in diversified cultures. It is interesting to see the interaction in their house. My brother is fully Latin. He is probably the most Latin person I know. My sister-in-law is Hawaiian. She looks very Hawaiian, but her experience in Nicaragua changed her, and besides falling in love with my brother she also fell in love with our culture. So their challenge now is to make the Latin culture a part of their children’s personality. My brother and his wife speak to them mainly in Spanish. However, the little girls, who are 3 and 5, can speak both languages fluently. My brother is really trying to transmit the values of this culture to their children. It is kind of hard though, transmitting the values of a culture while living in a completely different house. Leaving the house is like leaving the country.
The approach I took to do this project is a combination of biographical and anthropological. I start by giving a little bit of background history about my brother: The relationship he has with us; the things he values; how he met his wife; and what they are doing now. I do all this through the use of pictures and a voiceover narrating a storyline that leads to the point of the documentary, which is pointing out a culturally diversified house. This part is the biographical part because I am giving a description of my brother’s life and some of the factors that lead him to where he is now. The second part of the documentary is when I go to North Carolina to visit them for thanksgiving. This part fits better in the anthropological documentary mode because I am having first hand interaction within their house. I am able to see how they mingle with each other, and see little parts of different cultures. I hear my nieces say something really Nicaraguan, followed by a sentence perfectly structured and pronounced in English. In this part of the documentary, I “immerse” myself in the little, unique culture of their house, and observe the way things develop in that little, exotic world.
This documentary reminded me of “Stories we tell”. In that documentary, the director had a close relationship with the storyline of the documentary. It was about her, about who she was and where she came from. In that case, the documentary fit better in the autobiographical mode because she was directly affected by what she was doing. She came up with realizations, some of them really intense, about who she was and about her life in general. In my case, the documentary was not about me exactly, but my brother. Still, there is a close relation between me and the subject, in this case my family.
I really enjoyed filming and editing this documentary, probably more than with all the other ones I did this semester. I felt identified with what I was doing. Even when it wasn’t me, I can see myself reflected on the personality of my brother, and I can totally see myself in a position like his in the future. It made me feel a little nostalgic about my own country and culture, but I still thoroughly enjoyed the whole experience.
You can watch the video here. Enjoy.






